Misunderstandings… How do we handle it? March 20, 2008Posted by Giselle in Relationships.
Tags: Adjust, Commitment, Misunderstandings, Relationships
How does it feel when you think that your significant other just does not seem to understand why you do what you do?
Is it a feeling of anger? Frustration? Disappointment? Hopelessness? or just plain misery?
Of course he is just reacting in a way typical of him. Cz’ after all, another human being can not be what you want of that person, right? It is ok to try. But it is not necessary that it has to work out the way you want. In fact it is not even necessary for your significant other to be the kind of guy you’ve always wanted. Because, if you ask me, I think we are unconciously attracted to a particular “genre” of men. And in the end, we are most happy with someone who complemnts us in almost every way. It feels right when you find that person. And that is when you know that he is The One!
Misunderstandings could be because of many reasons.. it could be due to ur listening to only a part of a conversation.. It could be because of lack of trust in each other.. It could be because of feelings of isnecurity.. It could also be due to one’ own misconceptions!!!
Although quite a very frequently used word, it is quite dangerous.. cz’ a small misunderstanding is all that’s enough to break a precious relationship into really small pieces! And what does it bring in the end other than for sorrow, misery and a msierable feeling of loneliness?!!!
Misunderstandings are somethings that we have to earnestly try to avoid in a relationship.. That is why trust, loyalty and a complete belief in each other is of utmost importance in a relationship.
In this “modern age of civilization”, men and women are equal.. But still, that feeling of probably being mistaken to be a weaker sex is pre-dominant in a woman’s mind. This also leads to a lot of misinterpretations leading to confusion and misunderstandings… We have to avoid that to lead a more peaceful life with a lot more “growing old together” and a lot less “divorces” …