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What women want November 26, 2008

Posted by Giselle in Relationships.
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Love.

Attention.

Cuddles while sleeping.

For her man to understand her.

For him to satisfy her whims and fancies.

Apologizes.

A feeling of togetherness.

Smiles.

Takes her side in arguments.

Respect for her.

Gentlemanly behaviour such as opening the door for her, pulling the seat for her to sit, standing when she enters, etc…

Think the world of her.

Put his arms around her protectively at night especially.

Sometimes it is hard for a woman to say exactly what she wants.. but if you listen to her carefully, you can understand what exactly she wants.. coz’ the female species keep dropping hints hoping that the male gender might pick them up and act accordingly.

It is not playing games that they are doing.. Its just that they are built in that way and just keeps hoping that men would understand them! But that never happens. That is the saddest part of life.

Love makes people so blind that you see nothing wrong in the person. But those rosy glasses need then be kept on till the end of your life. Coz’ once you remove them and see the uglier aspects of the person you thought was your soul mate, then love can hurt with such an endless unendurable pain that you would rather wish you were dead than go through with it.

Women are gentle. Easy to get hurt. Very touchy with a whole lot of stubborn-ness. Guys just have to handle them with care. Nothing much to it.

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1. dbarber59 - November 27, 2008

Great Post! I try this too! I try to remember these things. I don’t believe some husbands really care because it’s all about them! They are so busy being Macho that they forget to be the mate/spouse of their loved one.

Dave

2. Giselle - November 27, 2008

Thanks!! it’s true.. many guys just don’t understand what women want! Everything can be understood by the way she says something, You just have to be a little observant and catch the varying tones she uses, and the inflections that you may discover!!!

3. nirveda - November 27, 2008

Hey..how are you doing…your post’s a bit gray….take care..good luck

4. yhen - November 28, 2008

nice one giselle! too bad, there’s so few of them (men) who will do that! hehehe! 😉

5. Giselle - November 28, 2008

Nirveda, you are right. I was feeling a bit gray at the time of posting that particular article 😉 Now, its better. But then thanks for the concern! 🙂
Yhen, that is one major fact! Very few “gentlemen” (from the girl’ point of view) these days!

6. yhen - December 3, 2008

a very sad fact, giselle. 😉

Giselle - December 6, 2008

*sigh* I know..

7. nav - December 6, 2008

And the men that actually believe in all this…..they don’t get the opportunity to show their love. The bad boys always win

Giselle - December 6, 2008

Its because the good boys hesitate to show their love and their true nature.. Whereas the bad boys put up a good guy face and they win! Its a sad plight…
But there are cases where the bad boys are preferred too!

8. jack91 - December 9, 2008

what a great blog!
awesome..
i’ll try it!
thank’s before^^

9. danmihalache - December 22, 2008

the same with bad and good girls…

10. forgettheworld - December 29, 2008

i decided one time that i was just going to be a bad boy. it ended up with everyone just thinking i was a jerk for a week. so i gave up again. ahhh women. i dunno if women would be happy with a guy who would treat them the way they say they want. it’s not really a challenge then. i like to think that when i’m in a relationship i treat a lady very well. but i don’t get many chances so maybe that’s the problem. no challenge for her. although i am a great debater (or good at arguments).

hope you’re doing swell. miss your comments on the crap i write. happy holidays.

Giselle - January 10, 2009

so now r u back to being a good boy?
😉
n hey.. i too miss reading ur posts!!! :O … 😦

but things have been happening and i have not yet been able to quite catch up with my blogging :/
But I shall b back soon 🙂

11. rb - January 3, 2009

Alrite, I’m missing my fellow blogger here!! You’re last entry was on 26th November 2008! Where are you woman? And what are you upto?

Giselle - January 10, 2009

Things have been happening and I have not yet been able to quite catch up with my blogging :/
But I shall b back soon 🙂

12. danmihalache - January 23, 2009

…What God wants God gets God help us all
God wants peace
God wants war
God wants famine
God wants chain stores
What God wants God gets
God wants sedition
God wants sex
God wants freedom
God wants semtex
What God wants God gets
Don’t look so surprised
I’m only joking…
(Roger Waters)
…I’m joking too

13. rb - February 22, 2009

Alrite…now I’m concerned!! What happened Gis..? Is everything fine?


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