What women want November 26, 2008Posted by Giselle in Relationships.
Tags: blind, emotions, feelings, hurt, list, Love, men, pain, Relationships, requirements, women
Cuddles while sleeping.
For her man to understand her.
For him to satisfy her whims and fancies.
A feeling of togetherness.
Takes her side in arguments.
Respect for her.
Gentlemanly behaviour such as opening the door for her, pulling the seat for her to sit, standing when she enters, etc…
Think the world of her.
Put his arms around her protectively at night especially.
Sometimes it is hard for a woman to say exactly what she wants.. but if you listen to her carefully, you can understand what exactly she wants.. coz’ the female species keep dropping hints hoping that the male gender might pick them up and act accordingly.
It is not playing games that they are doing.. Its just that they are built in that way and just keeps hoping that men would understand them! But that never happens. That is the saddest part of life.
Love makes people so blind that you see nothing wrong in the person. But those rosy glasses need then be kept on till the end of your life. Coz’ once you remove them and see the uglier aspects of the person you thought was your soul mate, then love can hurt with such an endless unendurable pain that you would rather wish you were dead than go through with it.
Women are gentle. Easy to get hurt. Very touchy with a whole lot of stubborn-ness. Guys just have to handle them with care. Nothing much to it.
Misunderstandings… How do we handle it? March 20, 2008Posted by Giselle in Relationships.
Tags: Adjust, Commitment, Misunderstandings, Relationships
How does it feel when you think that your significant other just does not seem to understand why you do what you do?
Is it a feeling of anger? Frustration? Disappointment? Hopelessness? or just plain misery?
Of course he is just reacting in a way typical of him. Cz’ after all, another human being can not be what you want of that person, right? It is ok to try. But it is not necessary that it has to work out the way you want. In fact it is not even necessary for your significant other to be the kind of guy you’ve always wanted. Because, if you ask me, I think we are unconciously attracted to a particular “genre” of men. And in the end, we are most happy with someone who complemnts us in almost every way. It feels right when you find that person. And that is when you know that he is The One!
Misunderstandings could be because of many reasons.. it could be due to ur listening to only a part of a conversation.. It could be because of lack of trust in each other.. It could be because of feelings of isnecurity.. It could also be due to one’ own misconceptions!!!
Although quite a very frequently used word, it is quite dangerous.. cz’ a small misunderstanding is all that’s enough to break a precious relationship into really small pieces! And what does it bring in the end other than for sorrow, misery and a msierable feeling of loneliness?!!!
Misunderstandings are somethings that we have to earnestly try to avoid in a relationship.. That is why trust, loyalty and a complete belief in each other is of utmost importance in a relationship.
In this “modern age of civilization”, men and women are equal.. But still, that feeling of probably being mistaken to be a weaker sex is pre-dominant in a woman’s mind. This also leads to a lot of misinterpretations leading to confusion and misunderstandings… We have to avoid that to lead a more peaceful life with a lot more “growing old together” and a lot less “divorces” …