What women want November 26, 2008Posted by Giselle in Relationships.
Tags: blind, emotions, feelings, hurt, list, Love, men, pain, Relationships, requirements, women
Cuddles while sleeping.
For her man to understand her.
For him to satisfy her whims and fancies.
A feeling of togetherness.
Takes her side in arguments.
Respect for her.
Gentlemanly behaviour such as opening the door for her, pulling the seat for her to sit, standing when she enters, etc…
Think the world of her.
Put his arms around her protectively at night especially.
Sometimes it is hard for a woman to say exactly what she wants.. but if you listen to her carefully, you can understand what exactly she wants.. coz’ the female species keep dropping hints hoping that the male gender might pick them up and act accordingly.
It is not playing games that they are doing.. Its just that they are built in that way and just keeps hoping that men would understand them! But that never happens. That is the saddest part of life.
Love makes people so blind that you see nothing wrong in the person. But those rosy glasses need then be kept on till the end of your life. Coz’ once you remove them and see the uglier aspects of the person you thought was your soul mate, then love can hurt with such an endless unendurable pain that you would rather wish you were dead than go through with it.
Women are gentle. Easy to get hurt. Very touchy with a whole lot of stubborn-ness. Guys just have to handle them with care. Nothing much to it.
I am So Mean :'( August 27, 2008Posted by Giselle in Relationships.
Tags: blame, fault, food, forget, frustration, game, hunger, hurt, lost, Love, mean, Relationship, sad, tears, work
I did a very bad thing today. Why am I like this? Why can I not understand my husband? Why am I being such a pain in the ass!!!!
Jason loves me so much and this is what I do to him! I feel so terrible!!! 😥
… 😦 He took his frustration out at me when he came back from a hard day of work and I got all huffed up and insulted at his mentioning that my work looked like a game to him and I walked off to bed. I didn’t give him dinner and neither did I prepare anything for breakfast!!! I actually intentionally hurt the love of my life!!!! I don’t think even God would forgive me!!! 😥 I feel like crying.. Why do I behave this way sometimes?
He takes care of me and caters to my every need and wish.. He loves me with the whole of his heart and would never cheat on me. He loves the food I make for him and he likes spending time with me. Yet, what do I do… I hurt him, Again and again!
Fine!I don’t have a job. But that is not his fault! He is also trying to get me a job somehow.. and then WHY did I have to treat him the way I just did! I don’t think there is anything I could do to compensate for what I did But what is it about the computer and the internet that is SO tempting to him and cant be put away for his girl, I cannot imagine! 😦 I feel so lonely when he sits in front of the computer..because the moment that happens, he completely looses every other sense of whats happening around him.. 😦
I did not even hug him yesterday night.. and neither did I give him any kisses when he went to office today.. and I made him go to bed hungry and go to office hungry today morning…
It is all my fault… and I am not able to make up with him coz’ lost time can never be made up for.. 😦
But he too did not come to talk to me after venting out his frustration.. He could have just come near me at least.. He knows how fast I forgive him.. It really hurt me when he compared my field of work to a game..:/ and even I have not eaten anything in the past 1 day…
… Whats the use…? I was completely wrong and there is nothing I can do to make up with him over this 😦 and he is never going to forget this either.. 😦